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Coping with Ourselves

December 31, 2015

And let the peace of God rule in your hearts to the which also ye are called in one body, and be ye thankful (Colossians 3:15).

People tend to find difficulty in coping with who they are. Often they mask who they really are with a curtain of perceived or “ideal” nature. Some call this political correctness, but it goes much deeper than politics. Each one of us is born naked, bloody and crying; but as we grow older we do our best to conceal our nakedness (both figurative and literal), our bleeding (both figurative and literal) and our crying (both figurative and literal). Why do we do this? I believe it is because it is in our moments of nakedness, bleeding and tears that our true self shows, and being uncomfortable with ourselves we avoid these moments of transparency and vulnerability at all costs.

As it has been said so often; “life is the path, not the destination.” The beauties of traveling this path all deal with growth in some way. The collection of experience, knowledge, memories and diverse tastes are blessings to each of us. One specific blessing that is visible in the eyes of those who have received it (though few they are) is the blessing of learning to cope with who we are as individuals. The peace that comes with finding our identity and finding comfort in it is a peace that many people discover only as they draw their last few breaths.

My friend has found this blessing early in his life and you can see it so clearly in his eyes. He is at peace with everyone and everything around him. His wife, his children, his grandchildren and his close friends all feel the peace and comfort that radiates from him. He does not fear the transparency and vulnerability of nakedness, bleeding and tears; he counts them as blessings. When you are around someone who is at peace with himself and with the Lord, you know it and you cannot help but enjoy it. You indulge in it. This friend of mine has told me one of the secrets of coping with who I am, because it’s something I struggle with sometimes. This secret is to learn to stop living in past failures – to stop counting your past offenses against yourself. He and I both realize what an unspeakable blessing it is to be justified by our heavenly Father, but this is the obstacle that my friend has learned to get over which I have not yet. Paul mentions this secret in II Corinthians 5:19 by showing how our Father does it. Paul says that God was bringing the world back into peace with Him by not counting their offenses against them.

God has not counted against me the horrible things I’ve done in the past; why do I still count them against myself? When I apologized to the people I have sinned against in the past, fortunately every single one has said “I forgive you.” Some even laughed and said, “What do you mean? I have forgotten all about that.” It seems that it is easier for us to not count bad things against others than it is to do the same for ourselves, but we must. There can be no peace of mind inside a mind at war with itself. This is the part of “coping with myself” that I struggle with the most. From time to time, I still count against myself some things I have done in my past, but each day that I travel this path; I learn and grow. There are some things that I have done that I thought I’d never put away which I have come to terms with. None of these things have I put away on my own. It is God’s example that helps me each day.

Being comfortable with who God made us is something we must all learn to accomplish if we wish to find peace within ourselves. It is an active task which is certainly not easy, but it pays big dividends to yourself and everyone around you. Learn to put away the things of the past that haunt your mind. If God has declared you righteous and isn’t counting your sins against you, you have peace with Him. You must also stop counting against yourself your sins that have passed if you wish to gain peace within yourself. Only then can you see the blessing in being transparent and vulnerable around your loved ones instead of hiding behind the walls of a fortress built with fear and sadness.

Aaron LockerAaron Locker


I Corinthians: Wisdom Without Education

December 30, 2015

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In First Corinthians the subject is wisdom. The words “wisdom” and “wise” occur in the first four chapters twenty-five times, and the words “foolish” and “foolishness” some eight times! The wisdom of the world is “foolishness” – therefore God’s “wisdom” is revealed (2:6-16). In 1:30 we are seen as of God – we that are in Christ Jesus who was “made unto us wisdom from God”; which indeed includes Righteousness, Sanctification and Redemption” but Christ is looked at as our Wisdom. Indeed, in 2:16, “We have the mind of Christ.”

William R NewellWilliam R. Newell (1868-1956)
Professor, Moody Bible Institute
The Spiritual Order of Paul’s Church Epistles

Romans: Righteousness Without Works

December 28, 2015

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In Romans man is shown without righteousness:

There is none righteous, no, not one.

Christ is set forth a propitiation, and by His death releasing man from the necessity of a righteousness and holiness of his own. Christ becomes his righteousness.

William R NewellWilliam R. Newell (1868-1956)
Professor, Moody Bible Institute
The Spiritual Order of Paul’s Church Epistles

Son of an Average Joseph

December 25, 2015

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Is not this the carpenter’s son? (Matthew 13:55).

The Lord Jesus Christ was the Son of God; but the one who had the distinguished role of being His earthly “father” was Joseph. A simple man, and from all earthly perception, he was what we might call an average “Joseph” – or an average “Joe.” He was a lowly carpenter; making our Lord the son of an average Joe.

This was not an accident, for it is indeed our Father’s method. The Father does not plan and build spiritual life upon social prestige, honor, respect and position. He has made clear the divine method:

For you see your calling, brothers, how that not many wise men after the flesh, not many mighty, not many noble, are called (I Corinthians 1:26).

Paul goes on to explain:

But God has chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; and God has chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty; and base things of the world, and things which are despised, has God chosen, yes, and things which are not, to bring to nothing things that are: that no flesh should glory in His presence (I Corinthians 1:27-29).

Our Lord Jesus Christ was seen as the “son” of Joseph, the carpenter – the son of the average Joe; but His life was the manifestation of His Heavenly Father! So it can be with us: though we were born a mere human, and may have a lowly lot in life, inside of us dwells the very life of the Father!

C2Pilkington-4Clyde L. Pilkington, Jr.

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